Name calling is never nice in everyday life, but like many people I absolutely love being called lots of things while I’m having sex. I love to be called a slut and a whore in instances where I’m being dominated and acting like one. In real life I would be really offended if someone used these words to describe be, as anyone probably would. Psychologically name calling is very interesting (though I’m no psychologist). it’s the idea of power play and degradation and humiliation that does it for many, while others claim that its empowering to use such terms in a more positive light. While playing in a BDSM sense I’m usually called “my slut” or “my whore” when I’m submissive. I find this really helps set the scene, (I’m a little pleasure seeking thing that deserves no respect until i prove i should have earned it from my master) and it helps me feel “owned” by the dominant. belfast boy will call me his filthy little cunt, and gets me to repeat it as hes coming. it feels so good to be called that, to hear him moaning and knowing ive been a good sub, and feeling like an object to be used and toyed with while imagining his cock deep in my mouth, him pulling my hair and calling me his slut as i swallow his cum.
Some people hate being called names, while others love it, and it can be a good idea to discuss things with your partner before starting to use the terms. Clearly state if there are any words you do not like,
one thing i do not like is the use of parental names such as "mom/mummy and Dad/daddy" the whole thing just feels a bit weird and wrong to me, those titles are to me asexual ( although i know parents are not) and it just kills the moment.
I'd love to hear what other peoples favorite names and words are while they are having sex too, so comment, or email
Saturday 24 April 2010
Thursday 22 April 2010
photograps and a HNT
this song has got me thinking.
sexy pictures can be a great gift for a partner especially in a long-distance relationship. it helps remind them of you, and if youre anything like me will be a massive turn on to send or reveive them.
theres a few usual tips that can be good practice, such as taking images from the neck down if you are not sure if they will stay for your lovers eyes only, and removing anything identifiable from the background or yourself, for example tatoos and peircings.
the other massive question is what to take, and how!
personally i find that black and white images can hide a multitude of sins, such as bad skin tone and things like stretch marks. it can make you look slimmer too. Sepia colours to me feel romantic, and can look just as good as black and white.
the content of the photo is really to be more what you feel comfortable with, and how much nuidity you want to show. it is worth noting that if you do want hard copies of any images than printing them at a shop may be a problem, for one you run extra risk of the images been shared with people you may not want them to be, and some providers in the UK may not print them due to laws or their own company policies.
for me it is easier to take pictures using my digital camera and a timer, or just to use the automatic mode.
here follows an example of my work
sexy pictures can be a great gift for a partner especially in a long-distance relationship. it helps remind them of you, and if youre anything like me will be a massive turn on to send or reveive them.
theres a few usual tips that can be good practice, such as taking images from the neck down if you are not sure if they will stay for your lovers eyes only, and removing anything identifiable from the background or yourself, for example tatoos and peircings.
the other massive question is what to take, and how!
personally i find that black and white images can hide a multitude of sins, such as bad skin tone and things like stretch marks. it can make you look slimmer too. Sepia colours to me feel romantic, and can look just as good as black and white.
the content of the photo is really to be more what you feel comfortable with, and how much nuidity you want to show. it is worth noting that if you do want hard copies of any images than printing them at a shop may be a problem, for one you run extra risk of the images been shared with people you may not want them to be, and some providers in the UK may not print them due to laws or their own company policies.
for me it is easier to take pictures using my digital camera and a timer, or just to use the automatic mode.
here follows an example of my work
Friday 9 April 2010
Fantasies
I have plenty of fantasies, and i think they are a brilliant things to share with partners. Fantasies can fuel sexy texts, e mails and calls. I just love laying next to a partner, caressing and stroking and talking openly about our fantasies. A definate turn on.
My main fantasy involves a fair few elements and its been a main one thats been in my mind since my early to mid teens. the main elements are BDSM, medical fetish and orgies.
I'm taking part in a medical experiment to test reactions, though i do not know what it entails. I turn up to my appointment and am sat in a bland doctors office. A doctor in a suit and a white coat comes to greet me and takes me into the consultation room. im told to stip naked and lay on an examining table. I do as im told as i am nevervous. A nurse come in at that moment. the doctor looks at me and tells me that it is a study to test sexual reactions.
my feet are then put into stirrups and tied there. the nurse starts caressing my breasts and neck as the doctor strokes my thighs. the doctor reasches my clit and starts stroking, getting me wetter and wetter as the nurse pinches my nipples, making them hard and turning me on more than ever.I feel gloved fingers pushing inside me, trying to find my g spot roughly and i get closer and closer to comeing.
My main fantasy involves a fair few elements and its been a main one thats been in my mind since my early to mid teens. the main elements are BDSM, medical fetish and orgies.
I'm taking part in a medical experiment to test reactions, though i do not know what it entails. I turn up to my appointment and am sat in a bland doctors office. A doctor in a suit and a white coat comes to greet me and takes me into the consultation room. im told to stip naked and lay on an examining table. I do as im told as i am nevervous. A nurse come in at that moment. the doctor looks at me and tells me that it is a study to test sexual reactions.
my feet are then put into stirrups and tied there. the nurse starts caressing my breasts and neck as the doctor strokes my thighs. the doctor reasches my clit and starts stroking, getting me wetter and wetter as the nurse pinches my nipples, making them hard and turning me on more than ever.I feel gloved fingers pushing inside me, trying to find my g spot roughly and i get closer and closer to comeing.
Monday 5 April 2010
Threesomes
FFM threesomes are a topic me and Belfast boy have talked about in some detail while having phone and text sex as well as talking occasionally about MMF and even foursomes and orgies.
FFM would be ideal, as I am bi, and he's straight. We both love the idea of me and the other girl kneeling in front of his hard cock. kissing each other with his cock between our tongues, one of us with the his of his dick in our mouth and the other sucking and licking his shaft in a deliciously wet and sloppy blowjob. Positioning ourselves on the bed I leave the other girl sucking and licking his cock as i manoeuvre myself to lick her pussy.
I want him to dominate me, order me to put a show on for him, sat at the end of the bed in a chair with his video camera in hand. Ordered to lick and suck and slide my fingers in and out of another girls wet cunt. being told to crawl over to him and let him suck her off of my fingers. I love making my partners writhe and moan in pleasure, making them come, just knowing Ive done a good job.
I want Belfast boy to come on the other girls chest, grab my head and make me lick all of his sticky hot semen off of her tits. sucking and biting gently on her nipples as i do so, while he has his fingers inside of her again.
I ride him as she sits on his face offering her sweet pussy to him to lick and suck. grinding down on him until we both come hard, his cock filling my pussy and his excitement seeping out of me. pausing as the other woman cleans me, her warm wet tongue lapping around my pussy and clit. then changing places, him fucking her until we all collapse, spent and exhausted.
FFM would be ideal, as I am bi, and he's straight. We both love the idea of me and the other girl kneeling in front of his hard cock. kissing each other with his cock between our tongues, one of us with the his of his dick in our mouth and the other sucking and licking his shaft in a deliciously wet and sloppy blowjob. Positioning ourselves on the bed I leave the other girl sucking and licking his cock as i manoeuvre myself to lick her pussy.
I want him to dominate me, order me to put a show on for him, sat at the end of the bed in a chair with his video camera in hand. Ordered to lick and suck and slide my fingers in and out of another girls wet cunt. being told to crawl over to him and let him suck her off of my fingers. I love making my partners writhe and moan in pleasure, making them come, just knowing Ive done a good job.
I want Belfast boy to come on the other girls chest, grab my head and make me lick all of his sticky hot semen off of her tits. sucking and biting gently on her nipples as i do so, while he has his fingers inside of her again.
I ride him as she sits on his face offering her sweet pussy to him to lick and suck. grinding down on him until we both come hard, his cock filling my pussy and his excitement seeping out of me. pausing as the other woman cleans me, her warm wet tongue lapping around my pussy and clit. then changing places, him fucking her until we all collapse, spent and exhausted.
Thursday 1 April 2010
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