Name calling is never nice in everyday life, but like many people I absolutely love being called lots of things while I’m having sex. I love to be called a slut and a whore in instances where I’m being dominated and acting like one. In real life I would be really offended if someone used these words to describe be, as anyone probably would. Psychologically name calling is very interesting (though I’m no psychologist). it’s the idea of power play and degradation and humiliation that does it for many, while others claim that its empowering to use such terms in a more positive light. While playing in a BDSM sense I’m usually called “my slut” or “my whore” when I’m submissive. I find this really helps set the scene, (I’m a little pleasure seeking thing that deserves no respect until i prove i should have earned it from my master) and it helps me feel “owned” by the dominant. belfast boy will call me his filthy little cunt, and gets me to repeat it as hes coming. it feels so good to be called that, to hear him moaning and knowing ive been a good sub, and feeling like an object to be used and toyed with while imagining his cock deep in my mouth, him pulling my hair and calling me his slut as i swallow his cum.
Some people hate being called names, while others love it, and it can be a good idea to discuss things with your partner before starting to use the terms. Clearly state if there are any words you do not like,
one thing i do not like is the use of parental names such as "mom/mummy and Dad/daddy" the whole thing just feels a bit weird and wrong to me, those titles are to me asexual ( although i know parents are not) and it just kills the moment.
I'd love to hear what other peoples favorite names and words are while they are having sex too, so comment, or email
Saturday, 24 April 2010
Thursday, 22 April 2010
photograps and a HNT
this song has got me thinking.
sexy pictures can be a great gift for a partner especially in a long-distance relationship. it helps remind them of you, and if youre anything like me will be a massive turn on to send or reveive them.
theres a few usual tips that can be good practice, such as taking images from the neck down if you are not sure if they will stay for your lovers eyes only, and removing anything identifiable from the background or yourself, for example tatoos and peircings.
the other massive question is what to take, and how!
personally i find that black and white images can hide a multitude of sins, such as bad skin tone and things like stretch marks. it can make you look slimmer too. Sepia colours to me feel romantic, and can look just as good as black and white.
the content of the photo is really to be more what you feel comfortable with, and how much nuidity you want to show. it is worth noting that if you do want hard copies of any images than printing them at a shop may be a problem, for one you run extra risk of the images been shared with people you may not want them to be, and some providers in the UK may not print them due to laws or their own company policies.
for me it is easier to take pictures using my digital camera and a timer, or just to use the automatic mode.
here follows an example of my work
sexy pictures can be a great gift for a partner especially in a long-distance relationship. it helps remind them of you, and if youre anything like me will be a massive turn on to send or reveive them.
theres a few usual tips that can be good practice, such as taking images from the neck down if you are not sure if they will stay for your lovers eyes only, and removing anything identifiable from the background or yourself, for example tatoos and peircings.
the other massive question is what to take, and how!
personally i find that black and white images can hide a multitude of sins, such as bad skin tone and things like stretch marks. it can make you look slimmer too. Sepia colours to me feel romantic, and can look just as good as black and white.
the content of the photo is really to be more what you feel comfortable with, and how much nuidity you want to show. it is worth noting that if you do want hard copies of any images than printing them at a shop may be a problem, for one you run extra risk of the images been shared with people you may not want them to be, and some providers in the UK may not print them due to laws or their own company policies.
for me it is easier to take pictures using my digital camera and a timer, or just to use the automatic mode.
here follows an example of my work
Friday, 9 April 2010
Fantasies
I have plenty of fantasies, and i think they are a brilliant things to share with partners. Fantasies can fuel sexy texts, e mails and calls. I just love laying next to a partner, caressing and stroking and talking openly about our fantasies. A definate turn on.
My main fantasy involves a fair few elements and its been a main one thats been in my mind since my early to mid teens. the main elements are BDSM, medical fetish and orgies.
I'm taking part in a medical experiment to test reactions, though i do not know what it entails. I turn up to my appointment and am sat in a bland doctors office. A doctor in a suit and a white coat comes to greet me and takes me into the consultation room. im told to stip naked and lay on an examining table. I do as im told as i am nevervous. A nurse come in at that moment. the doctor looks at me and tells me that it is a study to test sexual reactions.
my feet are then put into stirrups and tied there. the nurse starts caressing my breasts and neck as the doctor strokes my thighs. the doctor reasches my clit and starts stroking, getting me wetter and wetter as the nurse pinches my nipples, making them hard and turning me on more than ever.I feel gloved fingers pushing inside me, trying to find my g spot roughly and i get closer and closer to comeing.
My main fantasy involves a fair few elements and its been a main one thats been in my mind since my early to mid teens. the main elements are BDSM, medical fetish and orgies.
I'm taking part in a medical experiment to test reactions, though i do not know what it entails. I turn up to my appointment and am sat in a bland doctors office. A doctor in a suit and a white coat comes to greet me and takes me into the consultation room. im told to stip naked and lay on an examining table. I do as im told as i am nevervous. A nurse come in at that moment. the doctor looks at me and tells me that it is a study to test sexual reactions.
my feet are then put into stirrups and tied there. the nurse starts caressing my breasts and neck as the doctor strokes my thighs. the doctor reasches my clit and starts stroking, getting me wetter and wetter as the nurse pinches my nipples, making them hard and turning me on more than ever.I feel gloved fingers pushing inside me, trying to find my g spot roughly and i get closer and closer to comeing.
Monday, 5 April 2010
Threesomes
FFM threesomes are a topic me and Belfast boy have talked about in some detail while having phone and text sex as well as talking occasionally about MMF and even foursomes and orgies.
FFM would be ideal, as I am bi, and he's straight. We both love the idea of me and the other girl kneeling in front of his hard cock. kissing each other with his cock between our tongues, one of us with the his of his dick in our mouth and the other sucking and licking his shaft in a deliciously wet and sloppy blowjob. Positioning ourselves on the bed I leave the other girl sucking and licking his cock as i manoeuvre myself to lick her pussy.
I want him to dominate me, order me to put a show on for him, sat at the end of the bed in a chair with his video camera in hand. Ordered to lick and suck and slide my fingers in and out of another girls wet cunt. being told to crawl over to him and let him suck her off of my fingers. I love making my partners writhe and moan in pleasure, making them come, just knowing Ive done a good job.
I want Belfast boy to come on the other girls chest, grab my head and make me lick all of his sticky hot semen off of her tits. sucking and biting gently on her nipples as i do so, while he has his fingers inside of her again.
I ride him as she sits on his face offering her sweet pussy to him to lick and suck. grinding down on him until we both come hard, his cock filling my pussy and his excitement seeping out of me. pausing as the other woman cleans me, her warm wet tongue lapping around my pussy and clit. then changing places, him fucking her until we all collapse, spent and exhausted.
FFM would be ideal, as I am bi, and he's straight. We both love the idea of me and the other girl kneeling in front of his hard cock. kissing each other with his cock between our tongues, one of us with the his of his dick in our mouth and the other sucking and licking his shaft in a deliciously wet and sloppy blowjob. Positioning ourselves on the bed I leave the other girl sucking and licking his cock as i manoeuvre myself to lick her pussy.
I want him to dominate me, order me to put a show on for him, sat at the end of the bed in a chair with his video camera in hand. Ordered to lick and suck and slide my fingers in and out of another girls wet cunt. being told to crawl over to him and let him suck her off of my fingers. I love making my partners writhe and moan in pleasure, making them come, just knowing Ive done a good job.
I want Belfast boy to come on the other girls chest, grab my head and make me lick all of his sticky hot semen off of her tits. sucking and biting gently on her nipples as i do so, while he has his fingers inside of her again.
I ride him as she sits on his face offering her sweet pussy to him to lick and suck. grinding down on him until we both come hard, his cock filling my pussy and his excitement seeping out of me. pausing as the other woman cleans me, her warm wet tongue lapping around my pussy and clit. then changing places, him fucking her until we all collapse, spent and exhausted.
Thursday, 1 April 2010
Tuesday, 30 March 2010
phone sex.
that northern Irish accented deep voice, my heavy breathing. it can only mean one thing. " i want to see this on your blog slut" i hear, my fingers working my clit. "yes master" if only you were with me, stood in front of me while I'm kneeling, watching you stroke your cock ready to come on my face. properly make me your cum slut just like we both know i will be. taking your cock in my mouth, sucking, licking and teasing you till you cant stand any more. with every fibre in my body i want to suck you till you come over and over several times a day. I don't think you realise just how much i love the silky feel of a warm throbbing cock on my lips and the ooze of pre come showing me how much you like it. the feel of your thighs and arse cheeks under my nails. even how it feels to have your ass clench around my fingers as i massage your prostate, hoping upon hope you come harder than ever before right down my throat. Loving the feeling of your hot cum splash across my face and neck, your hand on my jaw and feeling the head of your cock smear the result of my frantic sucking and licking of you across me. but that's not the end.
you pinning me onto the bed, your fingers finding their way deep inside me, hitting my g spot, your other hand holding me down, knowing when the time comes i will shake and moan so hard for you. trying to make me squirt all over your hands and maybe even into your mouth will be so brilliant I can hardly wait. Just the thought of having your cock inside me, filling me with your come makes me so wet and horny.
you tease me on the phone, telling me how your hands will find my pussy and clit through my jeans, you holding me across my neck, whispering into my ear as i get wetter and closer and closer to coming. your fingers inside me and your thumb pressing upon my clit making me more and more horny until i am on the edge of orgasm. you stop, cruelly laughing into my ears, taking your fingers from inside me and smearing my pussy juices across my face. making me go out to the shop or on some menial errand with my come all over my face...
upon my return kissing me frantically checking that I haven't wiped my juices from my face and that i am being a good little slut. just the threatening of an undisclosed punishment gets me going so much. irregardless of if it is going to be pleasant or not.
I need you now, your cock, your lips, to feel the breath on my ear and neck as you talk dirty to me would be just Divine.
you pinning me onto the bed, your fingers finding their way deep inside me, hitting my g spot, your other hand holding me down, knowing when the time comes i will shake and moan so hard for you. trying to make me squirt all over your hands and maybe even into your mouth will be so brilliant I can hardly wait. Just the thought of having your cock inside me, filling me with your come makes me so wet and horny.
you tease me on the phone, telling me how your hands will find my pussy and clit through my jeans, you holding me across my neck, whispering into my ear as i get wetter and closer and closer to coming. your fingers inside me and your thumb pressing upon my clit making me more and more horny until i am on the edge of orgasm. you stop, cruelly laughing into my ears, taking your fingers from inside me and smearing my pussy juices across my face. making me go out to the shop or on some menial errand with my come all over my face...
upon my return kissing me frantically checking that I haven't wiped my juices from my face and that i am being a good little slut. just the threatening of an undisclosed punishment gets me going so much. irregardless of if it is going to be pleasant or not.
I need you now, your cock, your lips, to feel the breath on my ear and neck as you talk dirty to me would be just Divine.
Sunday, 28 March 2010
horny
just imagining his hands on my hips, his breath on my neck as he whispers what he wants to do to me into my ear. His big strong hands pulling my ass into him, feeling the urgency and need as his already hard cock strains in his jeans. Getting wetter he knows how much i want, i need but he teases.
turning me around and kissing me roughly, sliding his warm wet tongue tantalisingly over my lip, then biting and pulling knowing how it turns me on. his stubbled face venturing down my neck, his warm breath and soft lips contrasting with the scratch of his stubble, sending shivers down my spine.
his hands slide down my back and onto my bum, squeezing and pulling my hips closer to his hardened cock, grinding against my clit, making me even wetter and more in need of him deep inside me. He pulls my top off and releases my breasts, sliding his tongue over the flesh, licking sucking and biting each nipple in turn. I find the buttons on his shirt, pull it off of him, wanting him naked in front of me, his cock to my lips.
he undresses me, finding my clit with his hand and my pussy with the other. I'm so wet he slides two fingers inside me, fucking me, but its not good enough. i need his cock inside me. I push him to the floor and straddle him, my pussy just inches from his cock. it's my turn to tease now. taking his dick in my hand i rub the head across my wetness, flicking it across my clit, making me wetter. he moans and thrusts his hips. i take him inside me, grinding down on his hips, making us both writhe in pleasure till we come.
turning me around and kissing me roughly, sliding his warm wet tongue tantalisingly over my lip, then biting and pulling knowing how it turns me on. his stubbled face venturing down my neck, his warm breath and soft lips contrasting with the scratch of his stubble, sending shivers down my spine.
his hands slide down my back and onto my bum, squeezing and pulling my hips closer to his hardened cock, grinding against my clit, making me even wetter and more in need of him deep inside me. He pulls my top off and releases my breasts, sliding his tongue over the flesh, licking sucking and biting each nipple in turn. I find the buttons on his shirt, pull it off of him, wanting him naked in front of me, his cock to my lips.
he undresses me, finding my clit with his hand and my pussy with the other. I'm so wet he slides two fingers inside me, fucking me, but its not good enough. i need his cock inside me. I push him to the floor and straddle him, my pussy just inches from his cock. it's my turn to tease now. taking his dick in my hand i rub the head across my wetness, flicking it across my clit, making me wetter. he moans and thrusts his hips. i take him inside me, grinding down on his hips, making us both writhe in pleasure till we come.
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